Signs a loved one may need help
- Missed meals, spoiled food, or noticeable weight loss
- Forgotten medications or appointments
- Unopened mail or unpaid bills piling up
- Trouble with bathing, dressing, or moving around the house
- Recent falls, bruises, or near-misses
- Seeming lonely, withdrawn, or less interested in hobbies
- A family caregiver who is exhausted or stretched thin
How to start the conversation
- Pick a calm moment. Avoid holidays or right after a stressful event.
- Lead with love, not lists. “I want to make sure you can keep doing what you enjoy.”
- Listen first. Ask what feels hard, and what they want to keep doing on their own.
- Start small. A few hours of companionship a week is often an easy first step.
What to expect
Start with a free conversation with Deborah about your needs and location. Discuss availability, the support you want, who will provide it, and costs before agreeing on a plan. For end-of-life support, include your hospice or medical team in clinical decisions.
Paying for care
Discuss rates, billing, and accepted payment arrangements directly with Deborah before booking. If you have long-term care insurance or other benefits, ask your provider what your policy covers; coverage and eligibility are not guaranteed.